Relationship with an Asian Girl

Many American men, and even Euro men, are not satisfied with the women in their home countries. Having a relationship with an Asian girl can be very attractive when comparing them to the home town girls.

Being in my mid 50s in age, and single, when I ventured into a bar looking for friendship, I was looked at and considered an old fat man. When I went to Thailand a week later, I went into a bar and was surrounded by several beautiful young Thai girls. There’s the rub.

My experience in trying to have a relationship with an American woman similar to my age was not a successful nor happy experience.

All the women I encountered were divorced and had children
- Most had issues with their ex-husbands and visitation arrangements.
- I did not want to be involved with the disagreements and fighting with the ex.
- I would never be a Dad to the children since they already had a Dad, plus I was not interested in being in that role.
All the women had bodies marred with child bearing Issues, and lacked a slim sexy body.
The women seemed to be more interested in finding a man who would help with their living needs. This is actually normal for all women.
They had an attitude of what can I do for them and didn’t really care about what they can do for me. Very one-sided expectations.
On the positive note, all that I met seemed to be financially independent.

After my unsuccessful attempts at finding a relationship, I stumbled on an ad in Craig’s list talking about a guided tour to Thailand. I enquired about the tour and was very impressed by the guy offering the details and descriptions of the trip. So I signed up to go. I had a month to prepare.

Looking outside of America

I went to Thailand and fell in love with the girls there. Beautiful, slim, young and full of life and completely in love with me, and old, fat American man. I went back a couple of month later and made several trips until I finally quit my job, sold everything I owned and moved to Thailand. I was surprised about having a relationship with an Asian girl.

Here are the Pros and Cons of having a relationship with an Asian girl:

Cons:
- They are all very needy for financial help. Money is the main motivator for everything.
- When you have a relationship with an Asian girl, you are in a relationship with her entire family,
- If you are financially supporting an Asian girl, you are supporting her entire family.
- They love gold jewelry, the expensive 99.9% pure gold. But they look at it like money. The gold has value and can be easily sold for cash.
- You will probably have a language bearer with her and have a few misunderstandings.
- Don’t think you can take her back to your home country. Getting a visa for an Asian girl is nearly impossible unless she comes from a wealthy family and she can speak excellent English. USA is the most difficult to get a visa, other countries are easier.
Pros:
- You will have a beautiful girl who will attend to your every needs, especially sexual needs.
- Asian girls are like the American girls 75 years ago. They know their place in the home and their only priority is to take care of their man.
  - There is no sense of equality, and the man helping with the house chores. Once I was helping hang the laundry out to dry and she was angry with me for helping. She didn’t want the neighbors to think she was a bad wife.
  - The only exception to this is their family. You will always be second choice when it comes to their family.
- They are anxious to cook, clean have children and anything else you want.
- You are the man of the house and you make all the decisions and if there is a disagreement, you make the final decision.
- They have lived without most modern conveniences and are not demanding about having them, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want them.
  - Most have watched movies that show modern kitchen appliances like a refrigerator, dish washer, etc.
  - A refrigerator is a must, but the only dish washer I have had is my girl.

Interracial Relationships

When considering an interracial relationship, it’s important to approach the topic with sensitivity and avoid generalizations. Here’s a breakdown of potential pros and cons, keeping in mind that these are broad points and individual experiences will vary greatly:

Potential Pros:

Cultural Enrichment:
- Exposure to different customs, traditions, and perspectives can broaden both partners’ horizons.
- Learning about each other’s cultural backgrounds can lead to a deeper understanding and appreciation of diversity.
- This can also mean the enjoyment of new foods, music, and social experiences.
Personal Growth:
- Interracial relationships can challenge preconceived notions and stereotypes.
- Navigating cultural differences can foster greater empathy and communication skills.
- It can lead to a more nuanced understanding of the world.
Expanding Social Circles:
- Partners may gain access to new social networks and communities.
- This can create a more diverse and inclusive social life.

Potential Cons:

Cultural Misunderstandings:
- Differences in communication styles, values, and expectations can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.
- Navigating these differences requires patience, open communication, and a willingness to learn.
Societal Prejudice:
- Unfortunately, interracial couples may still face prejudice or discrimination from some individuals or groups.
- This can create stress and challenges for the relationship.
- Experiences with fetishization of asian women can be a problem.
Family and Social Pressures:
- Family members or friends may have reservations or objections to the relationship.
- Balancing cultural expectations from both sides can be challenging.
- Differing expectations from each families view of what a relationship should be.
Stereotypes:
- Dealing with external stereotypes that are placed onto each partner within the relationship.

Important Considerations:

Every relationship is unique, and cultural differences are just one aspect of a partnership.
Open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to learn are essential for any successful relationship, regardless of cultural background.
It’s crucial to avoid generalizations and treat each individual as a unique person.

It’s important to remember that love and compatibility are not limited by race or ethnicity.